I usually don’t take these “click bait” lists very seriously, but a friend of a friend posted this one the other day and it’s surprisingly spot on.
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Humor: Biggie. Sometimes I think I rely on it too much and that other people think I never take anything seriously. Which is so not the case.
Hurting other people’s feelings: Horrifies me.
- Unless they deserve it for being an asshole to someone else (or a group).
- I can’t be an asshole, even when I sort of need to (e.g. employee who needs discipline, person I need to ease out of my life)
Easily hurt, though you’d maybe not know it and I’d probably try to laugh about it to minimize things.
Suspicious and wary of other people, especially when they’re in groups.
- Sometimes even if they’re my friends.
- Afraid to approach and join in.
Definitely hard for me to be vulnerable or to “owe” anyone. I try to be very self-sufficient when it comes to emotional shit and only like to talk about it in broad terms, or to make jokes. And I kind of resent it when people use me for help, especially if they have hurt me in the past.
